When she used to ask me if she is fat, I ’d say no, and she ’d call me out as a liar and get upset. The problem I have is in how to respond when she complains about her weight when we ’re about to get intimate (which she always does). I ’ve put on weight too, and I still find my wife very sexy. She went from quite slender to somewhere in the borderlands of overweight/obese. My wife has put on a fair bit of weight since we were married a couple decades ago.
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